I've got zilch.
It's not that I don't want to be dating. I would LOVE to have a fantastic guy around. But I think I'm taking a break from actively seeking one out on the interwebs. Online dating is exhausting. And I'm tired. All the time. That's what happens when you have a full time job, are doing a coaching internship AND working out 4-5 days a week. My house is almost always a disaster, my cats feel neglected and I'm at least three weeks behind on my DVR (that's a lie, I don't have a DVR - but I do have OnDemand). I don't even have time to see my friends - my best friend lives 30 minutes away and I haven't seen her in at least a month. I'm a terrible friend.
The only reason I do hang out with any of my friends now is that they are friends from the gym and we go out after our workout. And no one cares that I am sweaty and gross looking - because they are also sweaty and gross looking. No date would appreciate post-WOD Danielle. This is what I look like:
|Remember this picture? Go me.|
It's not that I don't want to date. Dating is awesome. I love meeting new people. But... getting all cleaned up to go meet a complete stranger that I may or may not hit it off with when I don't even have time to see friends who I love isn't a high priority in my life right now.
AND -- I'm sick of guys being intimidated by the fact that I do CrossFit. Yes- I do CrossFit. Yes- I'm decent at it. Yes- I'm strong. If you can't handle the fact that I can probably outlift you - I don't need any part of it. Maybe I've gotten spoiled by the fact that I work out with fantastic guys who are super encouraging and want nothing more than for us girls to get one more rep or 5 more lbs. I would really just love a guy who will totally rock a 'My Girl Is Stronger Than You' shirt.
I'm actually totally okay with not dating right now. I'm having a blast just doing me. I'm busy and enjoying every minute of it (okay... that may be an exaggeration... but I enjoy MOST minutes of it). So... the summary of my recent dating experiences? Nada.
On the positive side: being single has given me WAY more time to practice cooking. Here's a quick recipe for best steak rub ever:
Coffee Spice Rub
2T coffee (I used Seattle's Best #4. I like my coffee darker and thought this had great flavor)
1/2t Smoked Paprika
A pinch of cayenne pepper (just for a little punch)
Salt (I used Himalayn Pink Sea Salt as it is AWESOME. And pink.)
Delicious. Make it ASAP. Actually, ditch whatever you were planning to make for dinner tonight and make steak. It's a great plan.